In first grade I met seven giggly girls. Immediately we all became friends. Later on in eighth grade an additional girl joined our gang. We did everything together. One fond memory I have with these eight girls’ was when Halloween came around. Our imaginations ran wild as we invented matching costumes each year for our annual small town Halloween party. One year we all decided to be carrots for the upcoming Halloween event. We later made an orange quilt out of the carrot costumes. Another year we were sticks of gum. The costumes weren’t too comfy, but we had such a fun time dressing up.
Our friendship continued to our teen years. When the boy’s were away at war we would have sleep over parties where we giggled and talked about boys (of course). At one particular sleep over party, we each went around the room and said what we wanted in our future husband. One of my friends dreamily declared that she wanted a man with a stretchy wrist watch.
I also remember a time when my friend and I got asked on a date by these two boys. Well, since the boys had the nerve to suggest that we provide the food for the picnic we decided to get even with them. We became even more justified in our plan for revenge because they happened to ask us out on April Fool’s Day. When April 1st arrived we prepared a delectable lunch of grass sandwiches for our dates. The expression on the boy’s faces while they munched on those odd tasting sandwiches was priceless! But don’t you worry; we brought extra sandwiches just in case they didn’t like the grass ones.
Now we are all around eighty years old. Many of us moved away, but years later all but one of us moved back to our home town. Although we felt like boomerangs we just couldn’t seem to stay away forever. To this day we still get together and giggle. Last month we all had a tea party. If you were to ask me how the blazes did we stay so close through these 70+ years I would have to say that true friendship has two elements. The first element is tolerance. We are all human and we need to over-look the small things. The second element is forgiveness. Simply treat others as you would want to be treated. Forgive each other so your precious relationships can continue.
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True story told by: Erma, 82 (from the USA)